i have had a lot of these on a lift. the cover: on the lift, look at the driver side of the engine where the timing cover meets the block, right around the level of the alternator and down. a normal one is dry or has a dusty film you can wipe with a finger. a weeper has a wet stripe running down the cover toward the oil pan with dirt stuck in it. a bad one has a drop hanging off the bottom corner of the pan after it sits overnight. most of the ones i see between 60 and 120k are somewhere between dry and a film, and a surprising number never get worse than that.
the fix at a dealer is about 12 hours of labor plus the RTV and gaskets, so you are looking at 3,000 to 3,600 depending on the store. some independents in the cities do it for 2,200 to 2,600. i would not walk away from a film. i would walk away from a drip unless they knock the whole repair off the price.
KDSS. there are two hydraulic cylinders, one on the front sway bar and one on the rear, hard lines between them, and an accumulator and valve block on the driver side frame rail near the middle of the truck. with the truck on the lift, look at the cylinder rods where they come out of the cylinder body. dry is good. wet with a ring of oily dirt is a leaking seal, and the cylinder is about 700 plus labor. look at the accumulator body for wetness and follow the lines for rust on the fittings, this is Minnesota so the lines matter more than the cylinders.
the lean: park it on a flat floor, walk to the back and sight across the rear bumper, then do the front. a lean of half an inch to one side is common and it is a bleed procedure, about an hour, not a part. on the valve block there are two bleed screws. if a shop ever tells you they opened them "all the way" that is a problem, the procedure says 2 to 3 turns, no more, or you make a mess and a bigger job. a big lean plus a wet cylinder is a different story, that is a cylinder.
at 58k with one owner and a film on the cover, i would buy it and negotiate 500 off for the weep you cannot see yet. i would not pay a dime extra for "certified" on a lot that is not a Lexus store.